MAKING CHOICES!!!

So many times, i find it difficult believing that I could do a lot of incredibly wrong things. The struggle to always be right appears to be as difficult as the word "struggle". Recently, i got to realize that there were areas of my life that needed to be looked into. Sometimes we just try to concentrate on our vertical relationships(God and ourselves), and forget about the horizontal one(others and ourselves) which in turn matters a lot. Areas like friendships seem not to matter so much until we see ourselves drifting so far...far away from who we really are. Did i hear someone say "Datz very true"?

Now to the main topic, what am i really talking about??? Ummmm.....How d'u feel when u find out that a decision u have just made is going to be very detrimental to you? It's not actually that u couldn't have thought of something better, but u just have to make the decision because u want to please the next person. Many will say "Every situation you find yourself in life is a product of the choices u make", Aye.....I concur to that, but one thing I've come to discover is that it's really difficult to make the right choices if u are surrounded by circumstances and a lot of people gearing you up to make the wrong choice.

Hmmm....Talking about choices, I really find out that I'm speechless at this point. Recently, I was faced with a situation that needed a YES or NO answer. My YES would mean a lot, and also would my NO. Both answers had a side effect i.e. I would definitely not be happy, either ways. Now, u can imagine what it would be like for me, a Dilemma i would call it. And guess what I did?...wonder if ur guess would be close to what it actually is. I gave a NO answer, and it brought me through a lot of trouble...at which point I had to give an affirmative. This didn't even help, it was a worse case.

Well......, I really can't say much here(coz certain issues should be kept personal)...lol....., but i must admit that I've still not recovered from the effect of my choice on this. I'm praying earnestly to God, and crying deep down in my heart, hoping that HE comes to my rescue, and save me from this terrible situation.


One word, if u find urself in a situation where u are forced to make a choice between two things, and there are side effects both ways, it's better to follow ur heart. If u feel u shouldn't give an answer, then i bet u, u just might be right to abstain. There's no point making a decision when u know that there are side effects both ways....especially when it is difficult to weigh the side effects. One very important and easy way to get out of this kind of situation is to PRAY!!!