~BEHIND EVERY SELFISH MAN, THERE IS AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN!!!

He's got a job, she's got a job;
His paid job ends at about 16:00hours, hers at 17:00hours,
but she has to be home before him...to make sure he feels welcomed when he gets back.

At the end of the month, they both get paid....
They have a joint account (thanks to him),
but He's not willing to let them make the budgets together...
"It's my job as the head of the family" he says.

She does all the house chores - cooks meals, does the dishes, bathes the kids.
Junior's diaper needs to be changed, and at the same time, she's trying to prepare dinner...
She calls out to him while cooking "Honey, could you please help me keep an eye on the food while I go change Junior's diaper?"
His response: "That's your job dear, I'm sorry this football match is a 'MUST WATCH' and I don't wanna miss out on any of this".

He loves to hang out with childhood friends,
but when it's time for them to be out together:
"We have already exceeded the budget for the month dear!", we can't afford that anymore.

Just wondering, how long will this last before she begins to feel like she has made the most dreadful, insensible decision in life? How long before she begins to think of existing on her own, having her own account, and maybe eventually leaving the home to settle on her own? How long???

Most men don't realize it until it goes way beyond control....
Funny thing is: symptoms of these traits can be seen while the young man is growing up (say in his teens/adulthood), and even in the early phases of a relationship (dating).
There's more to a relationship than people can see.

BEYOND EVERY SELFISH MAN, THERE IS AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN!!!